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Shared by Deb

My sons, now grown have been adversely affected by displaced memories chronicled by prison photos with their dad. How sad a lasting memory. Unfortunately, my youngest son followed suit of his step-father. I dont believe in a generational curse. No positive role models to set an example in his/their life. Post tense, my paramour od 26 years is deceased now. But the impact still lingers for me and my sons. Nothing makes up for the absence.

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Shared by Anonymous

My sister is incarcerated. Now I have a niece to care for and I have to also handle another household, along with fees and attending court.

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Shared by Marsha

My husband is incarcerated, it has impacted me tremendously. I am a mother of six kids; I am overwhelmed. Now when I need a break I cant take one. I visit him every week.

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Shared by Anonymous

I’m scared for my son and any future children I may have. I’m also concerned about the young men and fathers to be, for their children. My nephew who is 22 is currently incarcerated for 10 years for assault and attempted murder. Knowing that he is alone in there, I feel bad, and scared for him. I would visit him if I could. (only immediate family is allowed) I want him to know that he isn’t forgotten and that he is still loved.

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Shared by Joanne

In response to these facts: Did you know? One in every 28 adults were in prison, jail, or in probation or parole in PA in 2009 (Pew Report, 2009) There are more than 1.7 million children in the United Stated with an incarcerated parent including one in 15 African American children, one in 42 Hispanic children and one in 111 caucasian children. (The Sentencing Project 2009) Over half of incarcerated fathers reported that they were the primary source of financial support for their children prior to their incarceration. (Glaze and Maruschak Incarceration and the Family: A review of Research and Promising Approaches for Serving Fathers and Families, 2008) These facts are horrible. The U.S. is leading the world in mass incarcerations and spending virtually northing on diplomacy and peace building.  

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Shared by Carlos

My boyfriend is in prison. I was incarcerated once, I feel scared for him because of all the things that happen in there. I cannot visit him because I am on probation.    

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Shared by Keith

Incarceration affects more than families, it affects society and the innocent. I feel for anybody who has been a victim. Hopefully rehab can cure a person’s sins.

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Shared by Anonymous

I have 2 sons and a brother in prison currently. My Grandfather and other brother died in prison. Plus another two brothers who spent the majority of their lives in prison.   It impacts me tremendously.

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Shared by Alicia

In response to the following facts: Did you know? One in every 28 adults were in prison, jail, or in probation or parole in PA in 2009 (Pew Report, 2009) There are more than 1.7 million children in the United Stated with an incarcerated parent including one in 15 African American children, one in 42 Hispanic children and one in 111 caucasian children. (The Sentencing Project 2009) Over half of incarcerated fathers reported that they were the primary source of financial support for their children prior to their incarceration. (Glaze and Maruschak Incarceration and the Family: A review of Research and Promising Approaches for Serving Fathers and Families, 2008) These facts make me feel that my brother, as an inmate, does not have total control of his life incarcerated.

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Shared By Anonymous

Having an incarcerated family member makes me appreciate my freedom and value family, because you never know when you can lose them to jail or death.

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Shared By Anon

We are only warehousing prisoners. There is no real effort on rehabilitation. One in every 100 in America in jail. We need to focus on prevention of problems instead of paying $60,000 a year to incarcerate. My sister is in prison, everyday my mom cries. She will die before her daughter gets out. Very sad for all of us. I have not visited her yet, there is still anger, shame, stigma, and disappointment. Very sad for all of us.

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Shared By Anon

No, I do not visit my uncle, because I like to stay focused on matters that are important, and HE made that decision to be there.

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Shared by Randy

These facts leave me with a lot of negative feelings. Makes me look upon my own childhood and the many instances that could have led to my demise. My mother is incarcerated, I do not talk to her. Adopted at 9, still scarred, but never held down by the weight or pain. I do not visit, I do not wish to reopen those wounds as life is finally good to me.

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Shared by Anon

It takes time… To write to them, To listen to them when they call, To take half of the day to visit, Its costly and affects our budget gas to visit and money for food.

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Shared by Catherine

One area that should be decriminalized is drug use. People in general should realize that there but for the grace of God goes I. Those who are hurting, hurt people and themselves. We are all sinners in a fallen world. The one and only hope in or Lord God. My brother is incarcerated and I always have underlying sadness. I dont visit as often as I should because it gets me depressed. Then I feel guilty because of Matthew 25 in the bible.

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Shared by Lisa

I am a single parent and its just sad that we are losing our children’s fathers to prison society and our children have to suffer. Most of the fathers are good supporters, but make wrong decisions on how they support, and be a role model for their children.

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Shared by Anon

Having an incarcerated family member makes me appreciate my freedom, and value family. Because you never know when you can lose them to jail, and/or death.

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Shared by K

My future husband and poppy to my grandchildren is incarcerated. His pre release date was never fulfilled, we were all looking forward to that date, Now here it is a year later and he’s still not home, It sucks. We visit because thats his only way to get to see us, this system gives us no other choice.

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Shared By Sonia

Having an incarcerated family member impacts my daily routine, due to the fact that I am the sole provider for my household, that I have lost the one person I can depend on, and the hurt of missing him and watching my grandchildren miss him is hard. Everything falls on my shoulders. Sometimes it seems as if I am carrying the weight of the word alone. But through it all God continues to bless me because there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and that is a hope that I can look forward to him returning home soon one day. So I am not complaining because I know that is not the case for as many others who will never see freedom, or be with their families again.

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Shared by Anonymous

Incarceration on families involves some heartache, shattered images of each other, and hopefully (if all parties work really hard) rehabilitation and new beginnings for reentry; building strong relations back up with family members and loved ones too.

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